We human beings are happiness junkies,we all want happiness to serve us. Behind most of our actions choices and relationships, the demand is happiness but do we care about satisfaction? If you are happy with whatever you are doing in life just ask yourself a question whether you are satisfied with what are up to. happiness and satisfaction are two different things. So now what satisfaction really is and why it's so important. Well it's more important than happiness but it doesn't mean that if you are satisfied you won't be happy the thing is you just have to figure out you have to be satisfied with whatever you are doing and happiness will follow up just believe in yourself just find yourself, what are interests these things will give you satisfaction and happiness but when you just follow someone just because of some peer pressure or because you so-called idol suggested to do something that might give you happiness but dude you will not be satisfied at all. So now le
But as I said it is not easy to take decision most of the time, sometimes it's not up to you, you may stuck at the situation where you don't know what to do ahead and in this ambiguity you go for the foolish thing that we called as "opinion" or someone's suggestion, you expect him to tell what you have to do.
Ok ! so let's be clear be clear what I think here id it's not bad you go for opinion it can help you in 1 of the 10 situation but dude the rest of 9 are your call.
I don't usually believe in this opinion kind of stuff cause, look when I ask for opinion, it must be from some expertise of that particular field in which you ask for a opinion. As he is the only one who could tell you about the advantage as well as disadvantage which turn to great point. If you go for any random friend or cousin or relative's opinion , they may not have much knowledge.
For example, someone tells you to go and invest in mutual funds and says it very profitable, you heard it . Actually you heard only profit and now gonna over his opinion think that their is a profit. But dude that guy didn't tell you that "MUTUAL FUNDS ARE SUBJECT TO MARKET RISK!"
Here if you would have talked to one expert , he would have told you about both profit and risk but that "someone"don't. That's the reason I am so insecure regarding random suggestion.
Their was a guy struggling in his life like a usual guy, he was in the college and studying psychology which was his interest but felt that his intrest won't make him as rich or as successful as he wanted , so here he had to take decision, here no one wanted him to drop psychology but what he did? He dropped psychology and opt for CS degree which lead to the emergence of the app we know as FACEBOOK and that guy is Mark Zuckerberg. What if he would have listened to the others? You all can imagine the outcome. Here what he did is, he listened to everyone but took his own decision which gave him his desirable outcome.
So the point here is that :
YOUR LIFE LIE JUST BELOW YOUR DECISION,
YOU DECIDE WHAT TO DO,
NOT THAT "SOMEONE."
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